A Missive on Wealth and Giving

To be up-front, this is to inspire my income-earning friends, family members, and whoever else may read this to give (or continue to give) money to charity, specifically to those that help the poor. For those that don’t currently give and aren’t overly inclined to start, like myself, I’ll suggest an initial commitment of $10 or $20 per month. I’ll start with $20, which can easily be accounted for in any number of different ways. For example, you could just have water, instead of dinner and drinks, when out with friends one night a month. I don’t think this should sound all that unappealing when you consider that (1) approximately 1,000,000,000 (one billion) people suffer from malnutrition (see http://www.worldhunger.org/articles/Learn/world%20hunger%20facts%202002.htm), including 40%+ of children in countries such as India, and (2) that approximately 70% of American adults are overweight (see http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/overwt.htm). Other benefits of giving would be developing discipline, generating curiosity among your friends, and possibly motivating them to start giving themselves. Anyhow, here we go.

Although I’m a Christian, I want this piece to have, at most, an indistinctly Christian ring to it, but I’m nevertheless going to start with a Bible verse. (If you’re not a Christian, don’t be put off, just appreciate the verse for its universal wisdom, like a number of esteemed non-Christians and even atheists do with the Bible as a whole). 1 Corinthians 4:7 provides, “For who makes you different from anyone else? What do you have that you did not receive? And if you did receive it, why do you boast as though you did not?” To me, this verse points out that our assets—physical health, material possessions, intellectual gifts—were all received by us in large part. Sure, some people have developed them more than others, but I believe the desire and faculty to develop physically, economically, and intellectually have been received by us in large part, too. In fact, many scientists and philosophers believe that our free will isn’t as free as a lot of us think it is.

Despite this, a lot of us, including myself, are prideful, or inwardly “boastful” to use the verse’s term. I’m a fairly well-off, decent-looking, smart, athletic, well-built American attorney (not that I’m flawless; I’m certainly not), but I could have just as easily been a poor, unschooled, unathletic, malnourished, HIV-infested third-world beggar. When you consider the following stats, the latter was probably more likely: Of the approximate seven billion people in the world, the average income among adults is equivalent to a mere $18,000 per year (this includes inflation and cost of living factors; see http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-17512040 ). And more than a third of the world’s population lives on less than $2 per day. That’s less than $750 per year, which is what a lot of us make within just a few days. Let me repeat this: over two billion people make less than $750 per year! And most probably have very little say in the matter. They could maximize their talents, resources, and connections, and yet never rise out of this pathetic income bracket, that is, unless people like me and you do something about it.

So, even those who earn, say, $25,000–$30,000 per year as an administrative assistant or school teacher are rich, at least in comparison to a good chunk of the world. But our fellow men and women, one of whom we easily could have been through no fault of our own, are mostly poor, struggling with poverty, disease, and hopelessness. Let’s give them some help. But it is not only they who will benefit from our help. For “happiness doesn’t come from what we get but what we give.” (Neurosurgeon Ben Carson). And while “we make a living by what we get, we make a life by what we give.” (Winston Churchill).

Even for a mere $10 or $20 per month, we can dramatically alter the course of several persons’ lives, people who will forever be grateful and also infinitely more likely to lead productive, beneficial lives—people who we could have very well been. $10 or $20 per month! That’s just 2–3 drinks at the bar or 3–4 lattes at the coffee shop. It’s a haircut once every six weeks instead of every three. It’s one less grocery item every time we shop. In other words, $10–$20 is practically nothing, even for those of us with a lot of school debt or bills to pay. And for those of us who are now opposed to giving up a small luxury or indulgence, you don’t have to—just save a little less money. As C.S. Lewis said, “nothing that you have not given away will ever really be yours,” anyway.

Some of us would be happy to give, but don’t know where to start. As some of you know, I’ve been in Africa during the last several weeks, over which time I’ve been fortunate to have been exposed to a number of different African charities and missions groups. I’m going to list a handful of them tomorrow along with a brief overview of their outreach. Africa is a great place to send your money as, get this, 47% of its close to one billion sub-Saharan population lived on $1.25 per day or less as of 2008 (see http://www.worldhunger.org/articles/Learn/africa_hunger_facts.htm). That cute little guy in the picture below (my man, Huntingtu, whose mother I know earns 100 Kenyan shillings or approximately $1.25 per day) is probably on pace to be one of them—to lead a life of abject poverty, despair, and hopelessness. Give him a little something, even just $10 or $20 per month, and make a difference.

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Alright, this concludes my message. Feel free to comment or ask me any questions. For every person who I discover will start giving $10 per month or more to a charity geared towards the poor, even the poor in the U.S., I will increase my monthly giving by $1.

Actually, on second thought, I’ll conclude with a quote by renowned atheist, mathematician, and author (my Dad’s favorite), Bertrand Russell. I think at first glance it’s a little too philosophical or scholarly for most of us Gen X or Yers, but, if you stick with it, I think you’ll find it moving, especially the second half of it.

United with his fellow-men by the strongest of ties, the tie of a common doom, the free man finds a new vision with him always, shedding over every daily task the light of love. The life of Man is a long march through the night, surrounded by invisible forces, tortured by weariness and pain, towards a goal that few can hope to reach, and where none may tarry long. One by one, as they march, our comrades vanish from our sight, seized by the silent orders of omnipotent Death. Very brief is the time in which we can help them, in which their happiness or misery is decided. Be it ours to shed sunshine on their path, to lighten their sorrows by the balm of sympathy, to give them the pure joy of a never-tiring affection, to strengthen failing courage, to instill faith in hours of despair. Let us not weigh in grudging scales their merits and demerits, but let us think only of their need — of the sorrows, the difficulties, perhaps the blindnesses, that make the misery of their lives; let us remember that they are fellow-sufferers in the same darkness, actors in the same tragedy with ourselves. And so, when their day is over, when their good and their evil have become eternal by the immortality of the past, be it ours to feel that, where they suffered, where they failed, no deed of ours was the cause; but wherever a spark of the divine fire kindled in their hearts, we were ready with encouragement, with sympathy, with brave words in which high courage glowed.

$10+ per month. Do it.

5 thoughts on “A Missive on Wealth and Giving

  1. Hi Rob!

    I read EVERY word of your post. First of all, let me say that I really enjoy your writing style. Your use of outside sources and personal insights was brilliant. Huntingtu is adorable. Seth and I really want to adopt from Africa, and I always feel my heartstrings pull whenever I see a picture of a little face like his. I have my eyes on a Sudanese baby, but may have to expand my preferences because of the war.

    Secondly, I definitely feel prompted to give more after reading your thoughts. Not necessarily with impoverished populations, but I have often thought that I could be one of my patients in the hospital that I work at, and only by chance, was I given a better life. I am a selfish person. I know that. It is a character flaw that I do not give monetarily. I appreciate this reminder.

    I am honored to have a friend that wants to sharpen others and so freely shares his passions with the rest of us.

    I look forward to future posts! I signed up to follow you!

    🙂

    LM

    • LM! — Thanks for your message and compliments. You know, I’ve probably appreciated your messages just as much if not more than any others I’ve received from friends since I left (the other one being the comment you left on my Facebook wall around the time I left). WordPress says that my posts have been viewed about 250x by about a 100 different people, and only one other friend has dropped more than a one liner on me since. And not only was yours lengthier, but, more importantly, I can tell it was genuine and made out of care, so thanks again. 🙂

      I’m really glad to hear that you want to adopt. I’m definitely interested in adopting, too (not at this point, of course). I think adopting from the third world, rather than having your own child, would do the greater good in most cases, not that I wouldn’t also want to have my own kids. Sudan is pretty messy right now from what I’ve heard, too, with a lot of animosity toward Americans and Christians. You’re probably aware of more third world adoption opportunities that I am, but Orphans Overseas’ orphanage in the Kenyan city of Thika has 25 kids up for adoption I believe, and I sensed it was a really well-run place. It was started by a former Norwegian orphan Jorie Kincaid who has now written several books on adoption, and I’ve gotten to know her son, who is the orphanage’s director, pretty well.

      With respect to your “character flaw,” we all struggle with selfishness to a degree. With each act of selflessness, we throw a little punch at our selfishness. Keep throwing those punches, and eventually you’ll have the flaw reeling. haha.

      Alright, that’s all. I’ll see you for a Saturday morning run with Jim and his gang in a month or two hopefully.
      I think I’ll be back in time for winefest activities, too, and will certainly look forward to seeing you and Seth. You guys are great.

      -Rob

  2. Your plea is indeed eloquent and persuasive, son. The Russell quote was perfectly apt, too. I’m so proud of you!
    Love, Dad

  3. Rob! you are killin it out there bro!! Keep it up my man.. And when you come back i would love to hear about your experiences, Ive been including you in my prayers and will continue to do so. I envy your step out in faith and courage to jump out of the box and do it big for God..Huntingtu looks so blessed that you are there and I shed a tear just seeing yall’..I am totally willing to give 20$ a month, let me kno what I gotta do!?

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